Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.
There’s a syndrome that I call a “doofus dad” syndromeThere’s another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.
But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.
After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I’m only giving a smaller amounts of my time.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Women can’t be pulled to what they already have. You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me.
I don’t recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No games, just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want.
Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.
Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to take up in another newsletter.
It’s not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” girls, and then they are left out ALONE.
Remember that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
It doesn’t mean that you can “keep” the women if you invest all your time with her.
Another point that I want to give - when you start being honest about how much time you’re going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That’s ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.
You see, it usually comes from the social norm if you are following your true ways.
If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.
That’s why I set out on a journey to discover and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.
And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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