The other important thing I want to talk about is the idea that another man can be more “dominant” than you.
The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power - he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.
But ask yourself if those same power are still existing today. Every man with a source of income can survive on his own - if you’re reading this, you probably have an access to your needs like food. You’re all set.
Plus, it’s illegal to just beat people up. My point is, physical strength is pretty much irrelevant in the modern world.
It is always to your loss if you attack another person because the police always win.
If you think about it, you are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!
Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
It was annoying - remembering all the girls I missed out on because I was scare about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!
You are going to look back on all the things you did and didn’t do, when the time comes that you’re on your deathbed. How painful it is to say “I haven’t approached that girl because I was scared of another guy,” or “I could have enjoyed being with so many beautiful women if only I have approached them even if they were TALKING to another guy.”
I don’t want to happen that to you.
So let’s analyze it deeply. You truly don’t understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.
There’s a better focus. Rather than to see yourself NOT dominant when you are comparing who is more dominant between you and the other guy.
You must first THINK like a dominant man in order to become dominant. And dominant men doesn’t care who is more dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is that they are doing or want.
So when you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Focus on the girls instead of worrying who is the dominant between the two of you.
It’s proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn’t even know the guy - they just meet him.
Or if they do, maybe ONE of the girls know him, and barely the rest know him.
It’s seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating - normally they will bring a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
And also, if that guy IS with one of the girls, that means he’s NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.
You are NOT the alpha male by definition, if you are concerned with who’s the alpha male is. In fact, in this modern world it’s questionable whether alpha males truly exist .
Have your focus in a USEFUL place and don’t assume anything. And don’t let some random guy prevent you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!
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