There are three reasons for this.
First, being socially proactive may be new to you.
I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn’t have upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.
Although I have but it was so small and weak and it took me three weeks to notice them. I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms every time I worked them out.
And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.
Developing your new neuro-pathways will take time. So with the level of your skills, you need to push yourself harder from day-to-day.
Another reason you may feel social fatigue is because you think there’s too much to do or learn when meeting women.
Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from “fatigue.”
One way that can frazzle your mind is when you are overwhelmed by something. And this can lead to some sort of discouragement, exhaustion and depression. It’s like your body saying “Whew, enough for this much work, I’m quitting before I can even begin”
This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.
It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the needed things just to get a good quality of women.
The last reason why you feel socially exhausted is when you spend much mental energy and focus on stuff that isn’t helpful to pick-up.
99 percent of men gets it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can’t tell, because most men after suffering from a few harsh rejections learn to hide their inner “stuff.”
But this doesn’t deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.
As what we have seen and heard in the media, from our parents and friends - generally it lets us know that man’s role is to IMPRESS the woman and in return a woman will sleep with you.
Ridiculous!
I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around a cute girl trying to impress her, even though he looks like a fool while the girl giggles like she’s better than him because she’s a girl.
Ok enough ranting… the point is that most guys are screwed when it comes to being in control of their dating lives.
But everything will absolutely change if the guy will only takes time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction.
You need to OPTIMIZE YOUR MIND and body to function at the highest level when interacting with women, because that’s what’s truly attractive…
A GUY AT HIS BEST.
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