Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?
And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you’re not even closer to your goal?
READ ON if you answered YES those questions.
I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.
You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.
You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.
Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Let’s not started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “beautiful.”)
It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you’re not “extroverted” by nature.
… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”
I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.
Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.
What I do is to have a sit and rest!
Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home absolutely dead
… from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!
Does that make any sense???
There you see the general dating fatigue. There’s an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.
It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!
I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
It’s like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.
I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.
If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in your interaction with women.