If you are suspicious that your husband may be cheating on you, let him make as many mistakes as possible as these are all ammunition for you. Do not confront him until you have sufficient evidence to prove your suspicions. You’ll find below some of the most important signs that your partner is cheating on you.
1. 9 out of 10 cheaters do so in their own bed at some point in the relationship. If you suspect your husband of cheating on you in your own bed, make it a special way, then check every day - if you husband has been using it without you, chances are he won’t have made it correctly.
2. Enlist one of your girlfriends to help. Make sure it is one that he doesn’t know, then get her to hit on him and have her record it. The easiest way to do this is to have her call you answering service just before she starts talking to him, and then you can have the proof on call so to speak.
3. Your husband will definitely take advantage if he is left alone for a weekend. So to set another trap tell him that you will be away all weekend, give him precise times for when you are leaving and when you will be back. Then say goodbye and find a good spot where you’ll be able to watch your house, all you have to do now is wait and see.
4. Pay attention to all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check the credit card statements, bank withdrawals, and receipts, make sure you check for any unusual transactions. These can be obvious such as motel room receipts or gift shops from which you have never received a gift. However, he may be more cunning than this, so check all cash withdrawals, your husband may pay for things with cash to avoid leaving receipts that you might find. If he is withdrawing sums of money at the same time each week or month, then there is a chance he is using it to pay for a room with his other lover.
5. Monitor both his cell phone and your home phone. If you have access to his cell phone bill, watch for repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Watch how he uses his phone, does he answer it then move out of your earshot, does he take it everywhere with him, including the bathroom. Note whether returned calls to you are extremely delayed without verified reasons, or if he always turns off his cell phone when he’s with you.
If you feel the need to confront your husband but do not have concrete evidence, try bluffing him. You could try saying something like, I know you’ve been cheating on me and I’ll give you one chance to confess. He may break down and confess everything, but he is just as likely to continue lying.
I can assure you that your husband will screw up sooner or later you will need to be patient, but remain watchful. An easy way to do this is to hire a PI, however this can be expensive and may not be necessary. My advice is that you follow the above steps, keep a watchful eye for any of these signs, and keep notes of any evidence.